My sister is 11, I’m 13. Last week, I learned how to crochet a hat. She asked me to make her one. She’s usually really rude and mean to me, but I decided to be nice and make her one. It took me five days to make the hat that she wanted. I thought it turned out pretty nice. Obviously, to her, it didn’t. She asked me what "this piece of crap" was and I told her it was a hat. She said she hated it, cut it up with scissors, and threw it in the trash. I’m really hurt at this point and I’m really upset. I wasted 5 days of my life making her that stupid hat and she just threw it away. What should I do?




My 11 year old sister is the same. She is a brat. She acts nice when my parents are around but when it’s just me and her alone, OMG. She is so annoying and mean.
Parents don’t do anything. And she isn’t going to listen to you. Just forget about it and if she EVER asks for something again, remind her what she did.
Sucks I know but I guess it’s life.
you only get one sister – ever – better love her and shut up
Tell her you’re hurt. She may be 11, but she should be old enough to understand when things hurt people. Explain to her that you took the time to make her that hat and it would’ve made you happy to see her appreciate it. Explain to her your feelings. If that doesn’t work, try talking to your parents in private about the situation and how you feel.
punch her in the head.
Tell her she hurt your feelings and that you won’t waste your time doing something nice for her
Learn to do crochet, obviously.
Aw sweetheart all siblings can be hard to put up with. But you just have to tell her that it hurt your feelings and that you really wanted to make her something special and nice to keep. Then give her a chance to talk on why she did that.
Tell her how you feel! Tell her you worked really hard on that hat, and you thought she’d love it, and you’re really disappointed she acted like such a brat. Tell her you were trying to be nice and head towards a better relationship, but she just threw it back it your face. Wait for her to apologize, and if she doesn’t, give her the cold shoulder. You don’t deserve to be treated like that.